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Every day, thousands of horny adults log into XXXtreme Dating looking for local sex. From all over the UK, all age ranges, couples, singles, married and more. All with one thing in common. They love sex and rely on XXXtreme Dating as their sex finder of choice. Finding a local fuck buddy couldn’t be simpler. All you need to get started is a free account. You can create on by completing the fast registration form above. Make sure you use a valid email address as you will need this to verify your account. Once you have created your account you are good to go.

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Are you fuck buddies or something more?

A fuck buddy or friend with benefits is simply a person who you have sex with on a regular or semi-regular basis without being in a traditional or exclusive relationship. A fuck buddy situation only works if both parties are aware that they are friends with benefits. If either person thinks it is something more, you have a problem.

Often these situations unfold gradually without you realising. A drunken snog leads to something more. That something more leads to more sex, late night booty calls and before you know it, you are hooking up every time you go out together without acknowledging the situation or discussing where you both stand in this complicated relationship.

A friends with benefits arrangement can be great fun as long as you both know the risks. Potentially these relationships turn sour when one of the couple develops feelings towards the other or begins to feel used or neglected. Jealousy can also be an issue if one of you receives attention from another person or hooks up with someone else on a night out.

Rules for friends with benefits
  • Be clear in your intensions before it gets to late
  • If you start to develop strong feelings, discuss this with your partner before it gets out of hand
  • Remember the 'friends' part. Otherwise its just one person using the other for casual sex