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Finding local sex is fast, safe and discreet. As the leading sex and partner swapping community in South Africa we have a database of over 5 million active members looking to meet other likeminded individuals or couples to join them in their sexual adventures.

Registration is fast and free so within minutes you could be connecting with guys and girls all over free state. There is no better way to meet so many like minded people in one place.

What does your average member look like?

Truth is, there is no average member. Our members come from different backgrounds, young and old with different sexual needs and experience.

Most people enjoy sex, it's just our members choose to make the most of life and experience as many things as possible. Most members like group sex or partner swapping while others have different arrangements. Lots of couples enjoy chatting and flirting with other members online or via video chat without ever actually meeting or having sex. Some enjoy other members watching them have sex via web cam while a lot of guys like watching other guys fuck their wives while they just look on or even film. XXXtreme Dating is so much more than simply a meeting point for singles.

  • Connect with local swingers on the move with our smartphone enabled site
  • Over 5 million GENUINE members
  • Introduce yourself with icebreakers
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  • Advanced search filters. Search by location, age, sexual interests, even favourite sexual position
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Single guys or girls looking for fun in free state

XXXtreme Dating will connect you with thousands of singles looking for sex nearby. Our updated mobile site will ensure you never miss a connection or message where ever you may be. If you are in a relationship, don't worry about that. Roughly half of our members are single guys or girls who are looking to meet up with couples for some local, no strings fun. We also welcome married members who are looking for a discreet way to meet other married people for discreet encounters or to experience something new that their current partner isn't open to.

Register for free today and take a look around for yourself. With over 5 million members, there is someone to suit all tastes waiting for your message right now.